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Siblings are often our first friends, our partners in crime, and a lifelong source of love and support for many. While some sibling relationships may drift over time, others remain strong as ever, evolving through different stages of life without losing their foundation. In this episode of Almost 107, guests shared their personal experiences about growing up with their siblings and maintaining their bonds into adulthood.
For many siblings, childhood is a mix of inside jokes, playful rivalries, and unforgettable moments. Elliot Thompson, 22, is the youngest of five siblings. He comes from Edo State, Nigeria, and has three sisters and one brother. Being the last child had its perks but also certain restrictions. “I wasn’t really allowed to go out alone,” If I had to go anywhere, someone had to follow me, or I needed to book an Uber.”
Thompson says as he grew older, things changed. “Now I receive pampering from my older siblings- gift and all,” he added.
Siblings’ relationship often has their fair share of fights and bonding moments. Elliot reminisced about growing up with his sisters and how their relationship evolved over time. “I mostly fought with my sisters,” it was tough sometimes, but we live together now, and I think I have grown past that.”
When asked about his brother, Thompson’s tone shifted slightly. “We used to be very close, but after I finished high school, he moved to the UK.”. We haven’t really seen each other in a long time,” he says. However, he is hopeful that their family’s upcoming visit to Canada will get them together again.
Favourite childhood memories are often what make sibling bonds so special. For Thompson, travelling with his immediate sister to places like the U.S. and the Netherlands was a highlight. “Those trips were always fun,” he says.
However, he recalls the more mundane yet relatable moments, like fighting over the TV remote. “That was a major issue,” he added, laughing. “Someone would grab the remote first and decide what we were watching, and it was always a battle.”
Another guest, Oluwatomi Eko, grew up in a Christian household where love and faith were foundational; as the second-born with two sisters, he described their upbringing as filled with love, forgiveness, and inevitable disagreements. “The fights made it fun,” he says. “If you are always nice to each other, you never really see how much you annoy someone.”
Growing up, siblings’ dynamics often reveal different personalities. Eko explained that while he and his sisters had a bit in common, as the only boy, he was not treated differently. “It took me a while to understand that we had different personalities; as kids, we were just in the same space, figuring things out together.”.
One of his fondest childhood memories involved comforting his younger sister. “She was crying because she didn’t want to get her hair done. “She called me to come and save her; it was funny and cute at the same time,” he added.
Like Thompson, Eko also experienced the infamous battle over the remote control. “Whoever picked it first got to watch what they wanted,” he says. “I wanted the football; someone else watched cartoons, another wanted music channels- it was always a fight.”
Parental treatment can often shape sibling relationships. However, both Elliot and Tomi agreed that love was the foundation of their families. While Elliot admits that being the last child came with special privileges- like getting away with more than his older siblings -he also learned from their mistakes. “I adjusted my behaviour by watching what my older siblings did wrong,” he explains.
As siblings grow older, their relationships change. Distance, personal growth, and new responsibilities can cause siblings to drift apart. For Elliot, maintaining communication has been crucial. “We have a family group chat on WhatsApp where we share jokes and old pictures and have group calls,” he says. “That keeps us connected.”
For Tomi, the bond remains strong despite changes in their daily interactions. “We all have different lives now, but we still show each other love,” he says. “That’s what matters most.”
Strengthening sibling bonds takes effort, but it’s worth it. When asked for advice, both guests emphasized the importance of communication and forgiveness. “Just let go of any grudges and talk to your siblings,” Elliot advises. “At the end of the day, they are your family.”
Eko echoed this sentiment. “Love is the foundation,” he says. “Even if you don’t talk every day, knowing that bond exists is enough.”
Hearing these stories, it’s hard to say whether an only child truly misses out or dodges a lifetime of playful chaos. Perhaps it’s a little of both. But one thing is clear- siblings shape our lives in ways we don’t always realize, leaving us with memories, life lessons, and, at the very least, an unforgettable battle for the TV remote.