Distance can be a difficult obstacle to overcome in any relationship. With the ongoing pandemic, couples face this predicament more often than not.
Kathleen McCutcheon and her husband, who is actively in the military, have been married for five years.
“He’s definitely away a lot. His job involves a lot of in-person training and teaching. He could be gone for a week or a weekend, maybe even a three month period. We take it as it comes,” says McCutcheon.
Because this is a common thing for both of them, McCutcheon and her husband have gotten used to this lifestyle. They are very adaptable to whatever the situation may come to.
McCutcheon says, “A lot of it is making sure we’re communicating with each other. So, we always take the time everyday to spend some time with each other, and talking about what’s going on.”
Transparency is another big factor in their relationship. “Not being open with each other doesn’t help anyone. I think that’s the biggest thing, just talking about it.” she says.
McCutcheon and her husband also has two kids. She says that navigation and organization also play key roles in their relationship dynamic.
“With the two young children, when he was home it was a matter of figuring out when do I need him to be with the kids while I’m at work, or vice versa,” says McCutcheon.
So, even though distance can be a tough mountain to conquer, it’s not impossible to get through.
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